Monique Hawkins - Author
When Love Ends
 

Jasmine Thomas, Tina Van Dorn, and Ahmad Covington are three of the best friends you could ever find.  When one is going through something, you had better believe the others are right there to pick up the pieces. Who I ask doesn’t need a friend when one has been drop kicked to the curb by the very man you loved more than life itself.  How about when the man you love no longer loves you but someone else.

Or maybe when your man can't see a good thing even if it slapped him in the face. The subject of men can get your boiling and it’s a conversation you can have and never run out of things to say.  The important thing to remember is to never lose yourself in a man to the point where you give him everything and you get nothing in return.  Ladies we need to stop losing our identity when we get a man; you know what I mean, you move in with him and your name isn’t on anything in the house.  Don’t you know when he gets tired of you all he has to do is open the door and send you and your sway back pumps on your way?  

Your relationship didn't work out, but can I tell you it's because it wasn’t supposed to work out.  I'm serious, see you are going to find yourself in several relationships that are just a test.  This test is designed to prepare you for when God sends on the man He would have you to be with. So see, there is no need to come unglued at the seams, tell yourself it's only a test. Then all you have to do is keep holding your head up and add a little pep to your swag. 

One-day men will learn the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence. Sometimes what you want and what you need is right in front of your face. Men, don’t be so quick to write off the one you are with just because some chick is switching her behind in your face and showing you some attention. The woman you have at home has been by your side through the good times and the bad times. She has been there through thick and thin; the ups and the downs. The woman you have at home was there when you could not count on anybody else to be there for you.  

A wise person once said if somebody wants to leave you and you know in your heart you have done all you could to be good to that person; let them go. You don’t want to be with anybody that doesn't want to be with you. The worst thing you can do is try to hold on to someone that doesn't want to be held on to. Both men and women need to understand that anything worth having is worth fighting for; you have to figure out how to fix it, if it's worth keeping.


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